Thunderbolt bridge between mac finnicky

I’m trying to connect: PC with TB4 <> certified TB cable <> Mac Mini. I followed instructions on the wiki page, though the mac doesn’t show up with I do boltctl list. Whenever I connect the cable, either it doesn’t work between either device, or it works from linux to mac but not mac to linux when I get the IP addresses shown with ip -br addr show thunderbolt0. Every time It’s plugged in, it says its running in macOS settings.

  networking = {
    networkmanager.enable = true;
    # networkmanager.wifi.backend = "iwd";
    firewall.checkReversePath = false;
    # wireless.iwd = {
    #   enable = true;
    #   settings.General.EnableNetworkConfiguration = true;
    # };
  };

  networking.firewall.trustedInterfaces = [ "thunderbolt0" ];

service.hardware.bolt.enable = true;
services.udev.extraRules = ''
      ACTION=="add", SUBSYSTEM=="thunderbolt", ATTR{authorized}=="0", ATTR{authorized}="1"
    '';